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When A Wedding Planner Weds: Part II | Our Secret Destination Elopement Story: A “RoadMoon”

Blog, Real Weddings / 11.13.20162 comments

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Downtown Santa Fe Historic Plaza by Palace of Governors and Indian Market. Photo by Melanie West.

Part Two of Two of “When a Wedding Planner Weds” (see Part One ) : I got married and changed my last name to “Doehr” in a destination, secret elopement to Santa Fe, New Mexico with 5 family members present.  Why?  The focus for us was on the sacred intimacy of our vows, each other … and wanting to leave room for serendipity and magic.  We did not want just one day of back-to-back neck-breaking schedules and many years of paying back the funds it took for one day’s event to take place. Honestly, we also wanted to stretch it out. To enjoy some travel and then come home and celebrate with family and friends- perhaps even multiple celebrations.

You see, there is this myth that if you don’t do a wedding a certain way, or include all the “required” traditions, that you will regret it or that somehow psychologically, it does not count.  I’m here to say that even if you believe that, with an elopement, you can still do your wedding “traditions” and “non-negotiables” later – any way you want – and as many times as you want when you get home or over the years.  Knowing you have the luxury of time is a gift I cannot describe, and makes looking forward to the future even more fun.

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